Aspects of life

There are various aspects of life. I have experiensed joyful and also the sad evindance in my small life. Intionaly i thought there we can live only in happines in life but today i realise that if we dont prepare our basic and essential work properly there is no any other way to test lifes real delight. We cant understand lifes real meaning and its various aspects like hppiness,sadness,winning, loosing,courage,fear,love,hesitation whether we do not feel and realise their essence to servival keeping differance btn our balanced thought and emotions only knowing they are changable .